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The Workplace Starts With Social Etiquette.

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1. when you go to other people's homes, you can talk less when you host, or even often advise you to drink tea or propose to watch TV. People always remind others to do something irrelevant when they feel they have nothing to say. If you stay, you may not be welcome.

2. right now Boss Reporting, his eyes don't focus on you, or his fingers snap a few buttons on the table. He's probably not satisfied with your report. If you go in, his feet are shaking idly under the table; when you speak, his feet suddenly stop shaking, he has already had a strong interest in your words.

3. and a new person. Conversation When his hands are always unwittingly in front of his chest, that means he is still on guard against you, so before he can believe you, you'd better be careful.

4. at a wine table, a toast to you is not for you or for you. So you should analyze it as soon as possible, whether you belong to the former or the latter. The former will lead the conversation to him and the latter will be drunk.

5. when an invitation is sent to you, when you are very happy to implement the invitation, he suddenly takes care of him. In fact, his invitation is just a way of saying so. You should not pursue it unless you want him to hate it.

6. finding that your mistakes do not tell you is much more frightening than telling you, especially when two people are in a competitive state of work.

7. a person who always talks with you is not proud. His heart is just contrary to his exaggerative appearance. He is an extremely inferiority complex. His exaggeration is just a disguise of his inferiority complex.

   Receive hospitality from others Term

The first meeting met with a long time, but I didn't see it for a long time.

If you don't know what you are saying, you can use your eyes to apologize.

Please criticize, ask for forgiveness, and forgive.

Please help me, please excuse me.

It is not appropriate to take the liberty of disturbing others.

Ask for help, please ask for instruction.

Praise people's opinions and use their opinions to see their own opinions.

Visit others to visit, guests come to visit.

Accompany your friend to accompany you, and leave with a walk.

Waiting for guests to wait for greeting and apologize.

If someone else leaves for good-bye, please don't send them to stay.

Customers are welcome to call patronage.

Ask your age for your age.

Read people's articles to read, please change the text with the right.

The other side's calligraphy and painting are ink treasure.

Invite people to accept gifts, laugh and give thanks.

Ask your surname for your surname and answer your questions.

Performance skills are used to show respect, others praise the award.

Congratulations and congratulations.

Ask someone to take a job and condone it for the time being.

   12 art of speaking

Urgent matters, speak slowly.

If you are in a hurry, if you can sink your heart and think, then don't rush to talk about things.

Clearly, it will leave a steady and impulsive impression on the listener, thereby increasing the trust of others.

Small matters, humorously speaking

In particular, some well intentioned reminders, speaking with jokes, will not make listeners feel stiff. They will not only accept your reminder, but also enhance their intimacy.

I am not sure about it.

If you don't talk about things that you are not sure about, people will think you are hypocritical; if you can speak out rigorously, you will feel that you are a trustworthy person.

Don't talk nonsense.

People hate people who make trouble. If you never assume anything or nothing, it will make you feel mature and cultivated. It is a conscientious and responsible person.

Never do anything you can't do.

As the saying goes, "no diamond, do not live in porcelain." If you do not commit yourself to what you can't do, it will make the listener feel that you are a man of words and deeds, willing to believe you.

It is impossible to say harm to people.

It is not easy to hurt others with words, especially among people who are close to each other, without hurting people. This will make them feel that you are a good person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.

Don't tell people what you are sad about.

When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if they see someone, they will easily make the listener's psychological pressure too big, and they will be suspicious and alienated. At the same time, you will give people the impression that you are not thinking about others, and want to pass the pain on to others.

Other people's affairs, be careful to say

People need to have a safe distance between people. It is not easy to comment and disseminate other people's affairs, it will give people a sense of security.

Your own business. Listen to what others say.

You should listen more to the outsider's opinions, one can give people the impression of modesty, and two will make you feel that you are a sensible person.

The more elders are heard, the less they speak.

Older people often do not like young people to comment too much on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they feel that you are not a respectable elder, modest and eager to learn.

The matter between husband and wife is discussed.

Between husband and wife, the most feared thing is to blame each other when they encounter things, and mutual consultation will produce the effect of "Empathy" and enhance the feelings of husband and wife.

The children's affairs are enlightened.

Especially adolescent children, very rebellious, adopt a moderate and firm attitude to enlighten, can not only let the children have a good opinion of you, willing to become friends with you, but also can play a convincing role.

Etiquette embodies a person's accomplishment, a person's demeanor, a highly qualified person, can give people a good first impression, can help him achieve success in career, then he is not far away from success.

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